Oh Dear Brittney! How much we miss you!
I remember Brittney just like I remember yesterday. It's sooo hard to
believe
that she is actually gone. Though I NEVER associated w/ her, I know a
lot
about her. Her ex-byfriend, Trevor, was in my algebra II class Junior
year.
He had tons of pictures of her on his notebook. Now those pictures are
few
of the last ones that were taken of her before her tragic death. She
was
only 16. WHY? Because she made a horrible mistake that awful night.
She
chose to drink and drive. Now, don't get me wrong, I am NOT hating on
her
for what she did. Hell, we have all made mistakes in our lives.
However, the
one she made, she will not be able to take back. She did ask for
forgiveness
the last week God gave her to live. And now she is w/ the angels in
Heaven.
She was talented in so many ways: she could act, she could cheer, she
was
SUPER smart, and most of all, she could dance like NOONE else. She was
head
cheerleader throughout middle school, and when she got to Oakland, she
was
captain for ! the freshman cheerleaders. She also became a Half-Timer
(hip
hop dancer). She found that dance was her calling. She didn't go on to
cheerleading for the rest of her high school years, but she did go on
to
dance. Not ordinary dancing like Jazz, or Britney Spears dancing. It
was
Hip-Hop that made her legs move. She stayed on Half-Timers for her
Sophomore
year. Towards the end of Sophomore year, she decided she wanted to
graduate
a year early. Like I said, she was SUPER smart. She went to night
school and
worked real hard and still maintained her A-average. She was an Honors
student w/ a hectic schedule. She finished night school and when
August 2002
came around, she was officially a Senior, a future graduate of 2003.
Now,
some of her friends were a little upset that she wanted to graduate a
year
early, but she assured them that she would stay friends w/ them their
Senior
year. So, Senior year was finally here. She got together w/the popular
Senior girls and joined them for the! Lip-Synch Contest. They put
together a
dance and a little hand-clapping, foot stomping sequence. If I were a
critic, I would rate it a 101 out of 100.It was AWESOME. So, the
Hip-Hop
Performers try-outs came along in like January of 2003. Of course, she
tried
out. Mrs. Sharron Farley was the choreographer for them. And of course, she made it.
As my
friend remembers, Brittney came in Mrs. Sharron's class on January 30
to
talk to her, wearing Go-Go boots and a mini-skirt, despite the winter
weather we had been having. LOL That was Brittney for you. She never
wore
the same outfit twice! She was a trendsetter. January 31, 2003, which
was a
Friday night, she decided to go to a party w/ her friends, Michelle
and
Meagan. That was the night that would change everyone's life. Yes,
there had
been alcohol served there. Yes, Brittney drove them home. I'm sure
that you
know what else went along w/ that. February 1 was the day that was
rather!
important to her and her family. They were to travel to the University
of
Tenn. in Knoxville. Brittney had been accepted there for the 2003-2004
school year. They never showed up. The reason? Friday night, Brittney
was
driving along Guy James Rd. when her mother called her cell.
She knew Brittney had been drinking. She just wanted her daughter to be rested up for the next day.
Brittney hung up her cell phone and was traveling along a one-lane
bridge
w/no guard rails and no reflectors. She went around the curve too fast
and
traveled down the embankment. She was not wearing her seat-belt. Her
friends
were, though. She was thrown through her window, according to cops and ems. She was unconscious. Michelle was unconscious,
too.
Meagan was not. Meagan called the police and w/in a short amount of
time,
the ambulance and life-flight arrived.However, Life-Flight could not take her to Vanderbilt because the weather was too bad. Meagan broke her neck and was
taken
to MTMC. Michelle broke her arm and received several scratches and
bruises,
and was sent to critical care at Vanderbilt. Brittney had major head
trauma.
Brittney was taken to MTMC, then escorted in an ambulance to Vanderbilt from there. There she would spend one week fighting for her life. Her
brain
was majorly swollen, so they had to induce her into a coma. They
performed 4
brain surgeries on her. While this happened, our school raised money
for
Brittney and her family. They thought that if she came out alive, she
would
have to have major plastic surgery, and since the accident was her
fault,
her insurance wouldn't pay for it, but it did pay for Meagan and
Michelle.
The night they performed the last brain surgery, which was
approximately one
week after the accident, they decided to take her off the respirater, to give her one last chance to breathe on her own. She couldn't. Her family decided to
donate
her organs. So, as of right now, someone is walking around w/ her
eyes.
Someone is walking around w/ her heart. If her brain had not had so
much
damage to it, someone would be walking around w/ her thoughts. Her
funeral
was held Feb. 13. It was a bright and beautiful day that day. The day
before
and the day after were gloomy, but God kept her day sunny. Let me tell
you,
a lot of people showed up. There were so many people that they had to
bring
out chairs just so people could have a seat. It was a celebration of
her
life. They showed pictures of her and her friends, her and her
grand-parents, her and her brother and sister, and her and her
parents.
There was a video tribute to her which included home videos and videos
of
her in her Drama class at school. Trevor sang a song for her. Her best
friend wrote a poem and shared it w/ us. Mrs. Sharron wrote a
poem as
well, which she plans on turning it into a song. There were tears,
there was
laughter, there were smiles thereafter. It was a beautiful funeral,
to say
the least. One I will always remember. The next day on Valentine's,
Mrs.
Sharron forgot about the whole big dance # they had been practicing
for for
a while and put together a special dance that Britt had made up with Mr. Sharron's daughter.
It was a great last pep rally. Britt's mom came out on the
dance
floor and the Hip-Hoppers danced for her. I cried. A LOT. They all
wore
t-shirts that said, (front) "We love you, Brittney"(back)
";Save us the last dance..." It was touching. Her 17th
birthday was
March 29. I visited her grave and there was a lot of stuff on it.
People
really loved her and she knew a lot of people. Even those that didn't
know
her, were really affected by it. All in all. Brittney was a great
person. A
beautiful person, w/ a beautiful smile. Perfect... and never again
will her
mom have her to hold. So, what did it feel like at graduation? EMPTY.
Take
it from me, it was hard knowing she would have sat RIGHT in front of
me. I
kept picturing her! there, w/ her little gown and cap, smiling like
always.
I know she was there in spirit. Brittney we miss you sooo much. We LOVE
you,
and we ALWAYS will. You are not forgotten.
***Love Always***
Kristie Harper***
Brittney Ann Fuson
March 29, 1986 - February 8, 2003
"Somebody Had To Teach The Angels How To Dance..."
This is dedicated to Brittney's parents, Bill and Patty.
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